The Power & Allure of Man’s True Strength

A man is known not only by his character, but the strength of
his character; because looks and outer appearance may wither
with age - not his core self. And when it comes to dating - it
is this integrity that acts as a guide and helps you segregate
the right from the wrong.

The strength of your bearing, your values and beliefs will even
help you glide over difficult periods of your life. During any
emotional upheaval, can you stand up to your virtues and hold
your head high? Or will you break down, and become an emotional
wreck or a psychic recluse? As they say, it takes nothing to
dream but courage to make that dream come true!

Before you even venture out, looking for a dating partner or a
soul mate - remember, life is all about marketing the right
product to the right market at the right time! Before you market
a product, you must look at the product’s positive and negative
features and benefits; and its position vis–vis competition.

Likewise, imagine you are the product targeting yourself to the
market, who are women. Before starting to do that, assess your
own plus and minus points carefully. What are your strengths and
weaknesses? What are other competitors (men) doing? What extra
should you do to score over competition? Because the market (the
women) consists of discerning choosers - who will choose very
carefully.

Here is a list of character traits that I admire and I have made
for myself. I carry it with me all the time to check and review.
It reminds me that the option to stay or go is entirely mine and
if I ever meet a woman who can not realize or appreciate these,
is the true LOSER and I have not lost anything, by not being
with her. Go through the list yourself and put them in your own
perspective, if you wish to emerge a WINNER in any relationship:

* Sharp, Quick-witted, Knowledgeable * Leadership * Attentive
listener * Confident * Witty, good-humored, controlled, balanced
* Creative thinking * Progressive * Spontaneous * Adventurous *
Emotionally stable * Possess sound health * Courteous, gallant,
polite and down-to-earth romantic * Generous, loving * Fine
sartorial sense * Not rigid * Strong character * Immaculate
personal hygiene * Have money, will spend/prosperous * Poised
and steady * Optimistic, die-hard * Confident about women, their
anatomy * Trustworthy * Responsible * Refined, polished,
superior taste